The majority of teenagers have sex before they reach eighteen years of age. As a parent, you may find the topic of sex difficult to discuss with your adolescent. You may also have religious or moral reasons for disapproving of their sexual activity. However, being open to her questions and concerns can bring you closer to your child. With your daughter, being supportive of her decision to go on the contraceptive pill can also help her to avoid unwanted pregnancies or abortions. There are benefits, drawbacks and important considerations to remember when making this important choice.
The pill is easy to get by prescription at any health care clinic. The costs are covered by your medical plan. In some countries, the pill may soon be available over the counter at pharmacies. The nurse will usually provide a three month supply. When your daughter returns for a refill, they will also check her blood pressure and ask her about side effects and sexual practices. The best part about the pill is its effectiveness.
Unlike any other form of birth control, apart from the IUD, which is not recommended for teens, the pill has over a 99% success rate. If taken regularly, your daughter is highly unlikely to get pregnant. In fact, “eighty-six percent of the recent decline in U.S. teen pregnancy rates is the result of improved contraceptive use,” claims Science Daily. Teenage pregnancy is not recommended due to the psychological and social costs it produces. Abortion is also a difficult option which should be avoided if possible.
Support for a daughter on the Pill is especially essential as it needs “to be taken regularly, preferably at the same time each day.” If you know she's taking this form of contraception you can make sure she remembers to incorporate it into her routine. Smokers should not take the pill. At first, it can cause side effects such as headaches, moodiness, weight gain, breast sensitivity, spotting in between periods or nausea. These effects should subside after three to six months. After this, much more rare side effects should be watched out for, like blood clots or persistent migraines.
Your daughter should not begin taking the Pill without a thorough knowledge of how her body functions. She should understand the workings of her reproductive organs and not be afraid of her sexuality. Ideally, she is in a relationship or at least not engaging in promiscuous behavior. The Pill does not prevent any sexually transmitted diseases. It should always be used in combination with condoms. If the Pill is used responsibly, it can assist your daughter to avoid some of the consequences of sex that no teenager should have to endure.
Disclaimer: This article contains information based on research and experience. A doctor should always be consulted prior to making any medical decisions.